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Lily & Josh
3rd July 2027

We would love you to join us on our favourite island to celebrate us tying the knot.

Ceremony at Holy Trinity Church, Bembridge  ·  Reception at Priory Bay Boathouse and Events Space

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The Day

Schedule

Here's how Saturday 3rd July will unfold. Times are approximate on the day — but the tide waits for no one, so please don't be late for the ceremony.

12:00
Guests arrive
Please be seated by 12:15 — Holy Trinity Church, Bembridge
12:30
Ceremony
Holy Trinity Church, Bembridge
13:30
Transport to Reception
Transport will be organised from the church to Priory Bay Boathouse and Events Space — please let us know if you'd like to make your own way.
14:00
Drinks Reception
Priory Bay Boathouse and Events Space — join us for a glass of something cold while we take photos
16:00
Wedding Breakfast & Speeches
Take your seats for the meal and a few words from the top table
19:00
Dancing
Sandy toes underneath the stars
00:00
Carriages
Thank you for celebrating with us.
What to Wear

Dress Code

Summer Beach Formal

Dress code inspiration

Think garden party bold colour dresses, linen suits and patterns which spark joy. Dress appropriately for the church service and be mindful the reception is on a sandy/pebbly beach with some forest terrain, so please bring sensible footwear. Flats, wedges or espadrilles are your friend.

The bridesmaids will be wearing cornflower blue and sage green. The colour orange is sentimental to us, so any pop of orange would be appreciated!

We want you to be comfortable — evenings by the water can turn cool, so a light jacket or wrap for after sunset wouldn't go amiss.

Although we are hoping for good weather, we are in the UK and it can be unpredictable! The ceremony and reception will be indoors, but forecast dependent, consider bringing an umbrella — and save the swimmers for day 2!

Getting There and Getting Around

Travel

By Ferry

For those travelling by car, consider the car ferries: Wightlink from Portsmouth to Fishbourne, or Red Funnel from Southampton to Cowes.

Booking ahead is worth it in July — crossings get busy in summer.

By Passenger Catamaran

The Wightlink FastCat is the most convenient option for those travelling on foot from London. It departs from the platform at Portsmouth Harbour train station, with regular trains running there from London Waterloo. The crossing takes just 20 minutes.

By Hovercraft

Hovertravel runs regular services between Southsea, Portsmouth, and Ryde for foot passengers.

Getting Around the Island

Taxis

Sadly Uber has not yet reached the island, but here are a number of trusted taxi firms we use to get around.

Parking

Transport from the church to the venue is organised, but there's on-road parking outside Holy Trinity Church, Bembridge, and plenty of parking at the venue too, if you'd rather make your own way there. Please let us know if that's the plan.

Where to Stay

Accommodation

We recommend booking early, as the summer season gets booked up on the Isle of Wight.

We advise staying in the Bembridge, St Helens or Seaview areas for ease of access to the wedding venues. If you have any specific questions, or would like recommendations for staying on longer on the island, we would be delighted to help!

Hotels

Airbnb

Lots of lovely cottages and holiday lets around Bembridge, St Helens and Seaview. Click below to drag and explore the map.

Browse Airbnbs near Bembridge →

Other Options

  • Self Catering
    There are many self-catering options not available on Airbnb, so please look at other booking platforms or independent holiday rentals.
  • Rooms to Rent
    Many local pubs and restaurants have rooms to stay in — consider The Pilot Boat, The Crab and Lobster and The Boathouse.
  • Houseboats
    Bembridge Harbour has a selection of houseboats available to stay in during the summer months.
  • Glamping
    Nodes Point Holiday Park sits in the bay adjacent to Priory Bay and offers lots of self-catering options, including holiday lodges and static homes.
The Morning After

Day 2

The sea and pebble beach at Bembridge

We will be continuing the celebrations, very casually, at The Point, Bembridge from midday on the Sunday — our favourite coastal hangout.

For good pints, some beach games and, weather dependent, even a sea dip — please come along!

Kindly Reply

RSVP

Please let us know you're coming — we can't wait to celebrate with you. We know many of you are NHS heroes shackled to the demands of rotas, but if you could let us know by March 2027 — and if you're waiting on rota confirmation, just detail this in your RSVP!
Kindly RSVP by 28th March 2027.

Click below to fill in your RSVP, including any dietary requirements.

RSVP Here
Wedding Gifts

Gifts

Your being there means more to us than anything else. We're not asking for gifts — but if you'd still like to give something, we'd be so grateful for a contribution towards our honeymoon instead.

Contribute to our Honeymoon
Just What The Doctors Ordered

Homework

We would like you all to raise the roof with some of our favourite hymns during the ceremony.

If you need some bedtime reading (or listening) between now and the big day, please brush up on:

Anyone who's watched Wales play at the Principality will know the last one well. Warm up your voices!

Stay In The Loop

Staying in Touch

For announcements nearer the day, join our WhatsApp community — the easiest way to catch last-minute updates and stay in the loop.

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Good to Know

Questions

Are children welcome?+

We love your little ones, but apart from a few children in the family who have roles on the day, we've decided to keep it an adults-only occasion so everyone can properly let their hair down.

Can I bring a plus one?+

If a guest is named on your invitation, we would love to see you both there! Unfortunately, due to numbers, we're not able to extend plus ones to everyone — thank you for understanding.

What if it rains?+

It's the Isle of Wight in July, so we're hoping for sunshine but planning for all weather. The ceremony and wedding breakfast are both indoors, so bring a light layer just in case for anything outside.

By when do I need to RSVP?+

Please reply by 28th March 2027 via the RSVP link above.

Is the venue accessible?+

Please let us know via your RSVP if you have any accessibility needs, as some of the terrain can be uneven. We'll have an ATV on hand to help guests with mobility needs get around the venue.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?+

We're having an unplugged ceremony, so we'd love for you to be fully present with us — please keep phones and cameras away during this part. We'll have a photographer and videographer capturing every moment, and we can't wait to share it all with you afterwards!

How do we get home at the end of the night?+

Lily & Josh will arrange taxis to collect from a pick-up point at the venue at midnight. If you'd like to make alternative arrangements to get back to your accommodation, just let us know.

A note about the sea+

Much of our weekend is right on the coast, and any swimming or sea dipping (Day 2, we're looking at you) is entirely at your own risk. Lily & Josh can't be held responsible for any injury or incident related to the sea, so please take care and use your best judgement.